quote: "The gaps between our fantasies of ourselves and the reality fascinate me. When people choose a partner, get married and decide to have a family, they're playing out a fantasy. Theoretically and hopefully, you choose a partner who can participate in and fulfill your fantasy. Couples battle about whose fantasy will win. Whose fantasy are we living? And then children come into it and they haven't chosen anything. They arrive into someone else's fantasy. It's all very unspoken and dreamlike." (A.M. Homes, interview)
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links: allison isn't very smart, 'cause she's a model (@fourfour), the joy of boredom (@boston globe), of spitzer ... why is prostitution illegal? (@slate.com), dealbreaker: the digital camera - "he wanted to remember every moment. i did not." (@nerve.com), be a voice against violence (@ logo-online) (edited by carly!), have you been a whore? (@waking vixen)
